A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in- law, and four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather' s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped, the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in- law became irritated with the mess. "We must do something about Grandfather, " said the son. "I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor." So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather' s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?" Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back to work. The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather' s hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
Children are remarkably perceptive. Their eyes ever observe, their ears ever listen, and their minds ever process the messages they absorb. If they see us patiently provide a happy home atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that attitude for the rest of their lives. The wise parent realizes that every day the building blocks are being laid for the child's future. Let's be wise builders and role models. Because Children are our future.
Conclusion: "Life is about people connecting with people, and making a positive difference. Take care of yourself, ... and those you love, ... today, ... and everyday!"
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Prison HELP
An old man lived alone in Minnesota. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and mentioned his situation:
Dear Son,
I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won’t be able to plant my potato garden this year. I hate to miss doing the garden because your mother always loved planting time. I’m just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren’t in prison.
Love,
Dad
Shortly, the old man received this telegram: ‘For Heaven’s sake, Dad, don’t dig up the garden!! That’s where I buried the GUNS!!’
At 4 a.m. the next morning, a dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.
Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what had happened, and asked him what to do next.
His son’s reply was: ‘Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It’s the best I could do for you, from here.’
MORAL: NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD, IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS, NOT WHERE YOU ARE OR WHERE THE PERSON IS.
Dear Son,
I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won’t be able to plant my potato garden this year. I hate to miss doing the garden because your mother always loved planting time. I’m just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren’t in prison.
Love,
Dad
Shortly, the old man received this telegram: ‘For Heaven’s sake, Dad, don’t dig up the garden!! That’s where I buried the GUNS!!’
At 4 a.m. the next morning, a dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.
Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what had happened, and asked him what to do next.
His son’s reply was: ‘Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It’s the best I could do for you, from here.’
MORAL: NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD, IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS, NOT WHERE YOU ARE OR WHERE THE PERSON IS.
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
The Ship Of Friendship
A voyaging ship was wrecked during a storm at sea and only two of the men on it were able to swim to a small, desert like island.
The two survivors who have been a good friends, not knowing what else to do, agreed that they had no other recourse but to pray to God. However, to find out whose prayer was more powerful, they agreed to divide the territory between them and stay on opposite sides of the island.
The first thing they prayed for was food. The next morning, the first man saw a fruit-bearing tree on his side of the land, and he was able to eat its fruit. The other man’s parcel of land remained barren.
After a week, the first man was lonely and he decided to pray for a wife. The next day, another ship was wrecked, and the only survivor was a woman who swam to his side of the land. On the other side of the island, there was nothing.
Soon the first man prayed for a house, clothes, more food. The next day, like magic, all of these were given to him. However, the second man still had nothing.
Finally, the first man prayed for a ship, so that he and his wife could leave the island. In the morning, he found a ship docked at his side of the island. The first man boarded the ship with his wife and decided to leave the second man on the island.
He considered the other man unworthy to receive God’s blessings, since none of his prayers had been answered.
As the ship was about to leave, the first man heard a voice from heaven booming, “Why are you leaving your companion on the island?”
“My blessings are mine alone, since I was the one who prayed for them,” the first man answered. “His prayers were all unanswered and so he does not deserve anything.”
“You are mistaken!” the voice rebuked him. “He had only one prayer, which I answered. If not for that, you would not have received any of my blessings.”
“Tell me,” the first man asked the voice, “What did he pray for that I should owe him anything?”
“He prayed that all your prayers be answered ”
a box of kisses
Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.
Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.
He yelled at her, “Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside it?”
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,”Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy.”
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.
In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
The Soldier's Story
A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco. “Mom and Dad, I’m coming home, but I’ve a favor to ask. I have a friend I’d like to bring home with me. “Sure,” they replied, “we’d love to meet him.”
“There’s something you should know,” the son continued, “he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us.”
“I’m sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live.”
“No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us.”
“Son,” said the father, “you don’t know what you’re asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can’t let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He’ll find a way to live on his own.”
At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide.
The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn’t know, their son had only one arm and one leg.
Moral: The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don’t like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren’t as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Thankfully, there’s someone who won’t treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.
Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say a little prayer that God will give you the strength you need to accept people as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who are different from us!
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Saturday, November 13, 2010
a gift of love :)
Can I see my baby?” the happy new mother asked. When the bundle was nestled in her arms and she moved the fold of cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped. The doctor turned quickly and looked out the tall hospital window. The baby had been born without ears. Time proved that the baby’s hearing was perfect. It was only his appearance that was marred. When he rushed home from school one day and flung himself into his mother’s arms, she sighed, knowing that his life was to be a succession of heartbreaks. He blurted out the tragedy. “A boy, a big boy … called me a freak.” He grew up, handsome for his misfortune. A favorite with his fellow students, he might have been class president, but for that. He developed a gift, a talent for literature and music. “But you might mingle with other young people,” his mother reproved him, but felt a kindness in her heart. The boy’s father had a session with the family physician. Could nothing be done? “I believe I could graft on a pair of outer ears, if they could be procured,” the doctor decided. Whereupon the search began for a person who would make such a sacrifice for a young man. Two years went by. Then, “You are going to the hospital, Son. Mother and I have someone who will donate the ears you need. But it’s a secret,” said the father. The operation was a brilliant success, and a new person emerged. His talents blossomed into genius, and school and college became a series of triumphs. Later he married and entered the diplomatic service. “But I must know!” He urged his father, “Who gave so much for me? I could never do enough for him.” “I do not believe you could,” said the father, “but the agreement was that you are not to know … not yet.” The years kept their profound secret, but the day did come … one of the darkest days that a son must endure. He stood with his father over his mother’s casket. Slowly, tenderly, the father stretched forth a hand and raised the thick, reddish-brown hair to reveal that the mother had no outer ears. “Mother said she was glad she never let her hair be cut,” he whispered gently, “and nobody ever thought Mother less beautiful, did they?” Real beauty lies not in the physical appearance, but in the heart. Real treasure lies not in what that can be seen, but what that cannot be seen. Real love lies not in what is done and known, but in what that is done but not known.
its for you that i love
Did Anyone Ever Tell You Just How Special You Are. The Light that You Emit Might even Light a Star.
Did Anyone Ever Tell You How Important You Make Others Feel.
Somebody out here is Smiling, Because of something you said or something you did!
Did Anyone Ever Tell You that Many Times When They were Sad Your arrival made Them Smile. In Fact, It made Them Glad.
Did Anyone Ever Tell YouJust How Much They Like You.Well, My Dearest FriendToday I am Telling You! I believe that without a friendyou are missing out on a lot!!!
Have a nice day, andI'm glad we are friends!!!
Just wanted to say Hi, AND HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY :)
Friday, November 5, 2010
Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'
The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'
'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.
'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl.
'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,
you will never let my hand go.'
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.
So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...
just another true love story + convo
Boy: baby we need to talk
Girl: kyle, wat do u mean?
Boy: sumthin has come up...
Girl: wat? Wuts wrong? Is it bad?
Boy: i dont want to hurt u baby
Girl: *thinks* omg i hope he doesnt break up with me... I love him so much
Boy: baby are you there??
Girl: yea im here wut is so important??
Boy: im not sure if i should say
Girl: well u already brought it up, so please just tell me.
Boy: im leaving....
Girl: baby wut are u talking about?? I dont want u to leave me, i love you
Boy: not like that, i mean im moving far away
Girl: why? All of ur famliy lives over here.
Boy: well my father is sending me away to a boarding skool far away.
Girl: i cant believe this.
[FATHER: (picks up tha other fone, interrupts & yells furiously) ERiKA, wat did i tell you about talking to boys?!!!!!....Get off the damn fone!! (And hangs up)]
Boy: wow ur father sounds really mad
Girl: u know how he gets, but anywayz i dont want you to go
Boy: would you run away with me?
Girl: baby, u know i would, i would do anything for u, but i cant... U dont know wut would happen if i did. My dad would kill me !!
Boy: *sad* its ok i understand i guess..
Girl: *thinking* i cant believe wuts going on
Boy: i need to give u sumthing 2nite b/c i am leaving on flight 1-80 in tha morning, so i need to see you now.
Girl: ok i will sneak out & meet u at tha park
Boy: ok ill meet u there in 20min
[They meet at a nearby park, they both hug eachother. And he gives her a note.]
Boy: here u go, this is for you i gotta go.
Girl: *tear* (begins to cry)
Boy: baby dont cry, u know i love you...but i have 2 go
Girl: ok (begins to walk away)
[They both go back home. And erika begins to read tha letter he gave her]
It says.....
Erika,
U probably already know that im leaving, i knew this would be better if i wrote a letter explaining tha truth about how much i care about you. The truth is, is that i never loved you, i hated you so much, u are my bitch and dont u ever forget that. I never cared about you, and never wanted to talk to you, n be around u. U really have no clue how much i hate you. Now that im leaving i thought u should know that i hate you bitch, u never did tha right thing, and u were never there. I didnt think i could hate someone as much as i hate you. And i never want to see you, for the rest of my life, i will never miss kissing you like before, i never want to cuddle up, how we used to. I will not miss you and thats a promise. U never had my love, and i want you to remember that. Bitch u keep this letter bcuz this may be tha last thing u have from me. I hate you so much. i will not talk to you soon bitch.... Goodbye
- Kyle
[ erika begins to cry, she throws tha paper in tha garbage & crys for hours ]
....A day passes, she is sad, depressed and she feels so lonely.... Then she gets a fone call....
Friend: how are u feeling?
Girl: i just cant believe this happend i thought he loved me.
Friend: o, about that. Kyle left me a msg. A few days ago. He told me to tell u to look in ur jacket pocket or something...
Girl: ummm ok
[She finds a piece of paper in tha jacket, It says...]
Baby i hope u find this before u read my letter. I knew ur dad might read it, so i switched a few words...
Hate = Love
Never = Alwayz
Bitch = Baby
Will not= will
........ I hope u didnt take that seriously because i love you with all my heart, and it was so hard to let you go thats y i wanted u to run away with me...
-Kyle]
Girl: omg its a letter, Kyle does love me!!, he must of slipped it into my pocket when he hugged me. I cant believe how stupid I am!!
Friend: lol ok but i g2g... Call me later
Girl: *happy*ok bye, i'll be at home waiting for my baby to call me !!
...... Erika turns tha T.V. on......
[Breaking news] 'An airplane has crashed. Over 47 young boys died, we are still searching for Survivors...This is a tragedy we will never forget, this plane was flight 1-80...it was on its way to an all boys boarding school...' Reporter says.
[ she turns off the tv....3 days later, she kills herself, because of tha fact that Kyle was dead & she had nothing to Live for... ]
....A day after that the fone rings. Nobody answers. It was Kyle, he called to leave a msg. 'Its Kyle, i guess ur not home so, I called 2 let u know that im alive, i missed my flight b/c i had 2 see u one last time. So i hope ur not worried. I am staying for good. Sorry if u got scared, i promise 2 make it up 2 u everything will be a be ok i love you so much...call me asap bye!
Girl: kyle, wat do u mean?
Boy: sumthin has come up...
Girl: wat? Wuts wrong? Is it bad?
Boy: i dont want to hurt u baby
Girl: *thinks* omg i hope he doesnt break up with me... I love him so much
Boy: baby are you there??
Girl: yea im here wut is so important??
Boy: im not sure if i should say
Girl: well u already brought it up, so please just tell me.
Boy: im leaving....
Girl: baby wut are u talking about?? I dont want u to leave me, i love you
Boy: not like that, i mean im moving far away
Girl: why? All of ur famliy lives over here.
Boy: well my father is sending me away to a boarding skool far away.
Girl: i cant believe this.
[FATHER: (picks up tha other fone, interrupts & yells furiously) ERiKA, wat did i tell you about talking to boys?!!!!!....Get off the damn fone!! (And hangs up)]
Boy: wow ur father sounds really mad
Girl: u know how he gets, but anywayz i dont want you to go
Boy: would you run away with me?
Girl: baby, u know i would, i would do anything for u, but i cant... U dont know wut would happen if i did. My dad would kill me !!
Boy: *sad* its ok i understand i guess..
Girl: *thinking* i cant believe wuts going on
Boy: i need to give u sumthing 2nite b/c i am leaving on flight 1-80 in tha morning, so i need to see you now.
Girl: ok i will sneak out & meet u at tha park
Boy: ok ill meet u there in 20min
[They meet at a nearby park, they both hug eachother. And he gives her a note.]
Boy: here u go, this is for you i gotta go.
Girl: *tear* (begins to cry)
Boy: baby dont cry, u know i love you...but i have 2 go
Girl: ok (begins to walk away)
[They both go back home. And erika begins to read tha letter he gave her]
It says.....
Erika,
U probably already know that im leaving, i knew this would be better if i wrote a letter explaining tha truth about how much i care about you. The truth is, is that i never loved you, i hated you so much, u are my bitch and dont u ever forget that. I never cared about you, and never wanted to talk to you, n be around u. U really have no clue how much i hate you. Now that im leaving i thought u should know that i hate you bitch, u never did tha right thing, and u were never there. I didnt think i could hate someone as much as i hate you. And i never want to see you, for the rest of my life, i will never miss kissing you like before, i never want to cuddle up, how we used to. I will not miss you and thats a promise. U never had my love, and i want you to remember that. Bitch u keep this letter bcuz this may be tha last thing u have from me. I hate you so much. i will not talk to you soon bitch.... Goodbye
- Kyle
[ erika begins to cry, she throws tha paper in tha garbage & crys for hours ]
....A day passes, she is sad, depressed and she feels so lonely.... Then she gets a fone call....
Friend: how are u feeling?
Girl: i just cant believe this happend i thought he loved me.
Friend: o, about that. Kyle left me a msg. A few days ago. He told me to tell u to look in ur jacket pocket or something...
Girl: ummm ok
[She finds a piece of paper in tha jacket, It says...]
Baby i hope u find this before u read my letter. I knew ur dad might read it, so i switched a few words...
Hate = Love
Never = Alwayz
Bitch = Baby
Will not= will
........ I hope u didnt take that seriously because i love you with all my heart, and it was so hard to let you go thats y i wanted u to run away with me...
-Kyle]
Girl: omg its a letter, Kyle does love me!!, he must of slipped it into my pocket when he hugged me. I cant believe how stupid I am!!
Friend: lol ok but i g2g... Call me later
Girl: *happy*ok bye, i'll be at home waiting for my baby to call me !!
...... Erika turns tha T.V. on......
[Breaking news] 'An airplane has crashed. Over 47 young boys died, we are still searching for Survivors...This is a tragedy we will never forget, this plane was flight 1-80...it was on its way to an all boys boarding school...' Reporter says.
[ she turns off the tv....3 days later, she kills herself, because of tha fact that Kyle was dead & she had nothing to Live for... ]
....A day after that the fone rings. Nobody answers. It was Kyle, he called to leave a msg. 'Its Kyle, i guess ur not home so, I called 2 let u know that im alive, i missed my flight b/c i had 2 see u one last time. So i hope ur not worried. I am staying for good. Sorry if u got scared, i promise 2 make it up 2 u everything will be a be ok i love you so much...call me asap bye!
the best moments in life
The Best Moments I n Lifee
1. Falling in love.![]( "Heart Eyes")
2. Laughing till your stomach hurts.![]( "Lol")
3. Enjoying a ride down the country side.![]( "Low Rider")
4. Listening to your favorite song on the radio.![]( "Thumbs Up")
5. Going to sleep listening to the rain pouring outside.![]( "Pillow")
6. Getting out of the shower and wrapping yourself with a warm, fuzzy towel.![]( "Shower 2")
7. Passing your final exams with good grades.![]( "A+")
8. Being part of an interesting conversation.![]()
9. Finding some money in some old pants.![]( "Dollar Smiley")
10. Laughing at yourself.
11. Sharing a wonderful dinner with all your friends.![]( "Pizza Pie")
12. Laughing without a reason.![]( "Too Funny")
13. 'Accidentally' hearing someone say somthing good about you.![]( "Thumbs Up")
14. Watching the sunset.
15. Listening to a song that reminds you of an important person in your life.![]( "Animated Hearts")
16. Receiving or giving your first kiss.![]( "Dream Kiss 2")
17. Feeling this movement in your body when seeing this 'special' someone.![]( "Cupid 2")
18. Having a great time with your friends.![]( "Party Smileys")
19. Seeing the one you love happy.![]( "Wakka-wakka")
20. Wearing the shirt of a person you love and smelling his/her perfume.![]( "Perfume")
21. Visiting an old friend of yours and remembering great memories.![]( "Bouncy 4")
22. Hearing some telling you 'I LOVE YOU'![]( "Cupid Fires")
'True friends come in the good times when we tell them to, and come in the bad times.....without calling.'
for the girls :)
This is really sweet........
When a Girl is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
When a Girl is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.
When a Girl looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering
how long you will be around.
When a Girl answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.
When a Girl stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying.
When a Girl lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a Girl wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
When a Girl says ' I love you ' ... she means it.
When a Girl says ' I miss you ' ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.
Life only comes around once make sure you spend it with the right person....
Find a Guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, 'That's her!! '
When a Girl is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
When a Girl is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.
When a Girl looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering
how long you will be around.
When a Girl answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.
When a Girl stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying.
When a Girl lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a Girl wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
When a Girl says ' I love you ' ... she means it.
When a Girl says ' I miss you ' ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.
Life only comes around once make sure you spend it with the right person....
Find a Guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, 'That's her!! '
A very Short Story +.+
Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl 'Will you marry me?'
The girl said, 'NO!'
And the guy lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles
and went fishing and hunting and played golf a lot and
drank beer and scotch and left the toilet seat up and
farted whenever he wanted.
The girl said, 'NO!'
And the guy lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles
and went fishing and hunting and played golf a lot and
drank beer and scotch and left the toilet seat up and
farted whenever he wanted.
You Are Everything To Somebody
A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty, he said...no. She asked him if he would want to be with her forever....and he said no.She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry, and once again he replied with a no.She had heard enough.As she walked away, tears streaming down her face the boy grabbed her arm and said....You're not pretty you're beautiful.I dont want to be with you forever. I NEED to be with you forever.And I wouldnt cry if you walked away...I'd die...
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
her and him
him meet her. her know him since primary school, but him don't know. then came a day, him is in form 5 and her is at form 4. her met him again. and him began to know about her more through facebook, twitter, msn. but her don't know that him is in love with her. but he just be quiet, until the right moment is right. ...
-TO BE CONTINUED-
-TO BE CONTINUED-
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
think differently
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true love :)
Always Together, Come What May !
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's
arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a
hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over
an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his
watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would
evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of
the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his
wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's
appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat
breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim
of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized
him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even
though she doesn't know who you are?' He smiled as he patted my hand and
said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and
thought,
'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not
be.
Price Of SIGUP increase
The price increase in cigarettes won't actually help to make smoker quit smoking, but instead it just help the business people to find ways to smuggle cigarettes. So the government should think twice before enforcing the law.
Singapore has tight security in their custom but still people manage to smuggle in cigarettes. What about here? If MoH are really trying to help smokers to quit smoking then where is the campaign? Yes, I'd saw the ‘No Smoking' banners all around the street corner and advertisement from TV, and what else? We cannot smoke in public and if you do so you will be fine.
But still I don't see this was enforced properly, because people are still smoking on the street and in restaurant.
Lastly I have went to RIPAS hospital on several occasion this year and I've asked the doctor either is there anyway to quit smoking or not but until now I had no information on it. So what MoH should've done is just a doing simple task, how can this increasing in cigarette price could help?
addiction can cause crime!
E-Speed, ignoring the complains. -from a local
"Seriously, e-speed is getting Worst! The connection is getting slow and lags much! Forget the future planning which may take decades, what important is now; it seems like there's no short-term planning or backup to improve this kind of problems.
I have to click the repair button for thousand of times in order to get back the connection or to unplug and plug back on the cable and keeps on refreshing pages until I give up on it. Therefore, it took me at least half an hour just to open up my mailbox! Downloading file? ...FAILED! How can you provide such service which is not worth a price?
If the only reason is because there's not much Internet Service Provider (ISP) then stop getting more and more subscribers with your whatsoever advertisement campaign which may only creating so much problem with the connection. Doesn't u need to fix things first?
Oh well, if the problem persist until the end of the year, then I'll cancel my subscription."
Thursday, September 9, 2010
WELL GUYS, Just Wanna Say Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri
kesedihan timbul akan akhirnya bulan ramadhan, tetapi janganlah putus doa dan ibadat kita ini, kerana sesungguhnya dengan doa dan usaha yang dibuat, insyaAllah Allah akan memakbulkan doa kita.
tiba sudah hari raya ini, bersama-samalah kita memeriahkan dengan semua orang, miskin atau kaya, dan sambutlah dengan senyuman dan janganlah lupa akan ibadat.
Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir dan Batin
kesedihan timbul akan akhirnya bulan ramadhan, tetapi janganlah putus doa dan ibadat kita ini, kerana sesungguhnya dengan doa dan usaha yang dibuat, insyaAllah Allah akan memakbulkan doa kita.
tiba sudah hari raya ini, bersama-samalah kita memeriahkan dengan semua orang, miskin atau kaya, dan sambutlah dengan senyuman dan janganlah lupa akan ibadat.
Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir dan Batin
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Guide to a Better Life :)
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
22. Put ALLAH first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. ALLAH heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank ALLAH for it
30. If you know ALLAH you will always be happy. So, be happy.
While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with,
people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.
Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.
."
Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
22. Put ALLAH first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. ALLAH heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank ALLAH for it
30. If you know ALLAH you will always be happy. So, be happy.
While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with,
people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.
Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.
Kelebihan Selawat
Firman Allah:
Tafsirnya: Sesungguhnya Allah dan para malaikatnya berselawat ke atas Nabi Muhammad. Wahai org2 beriman hendaklah kamu semua mengucapkan selawat dan salam kepada baginda.(Surah Al-Ahzab)
Sabda Nabi s.a.w:
Sesiapa yg berselawat keatas Nabi s.a.w sekali; Maka Allah akan berselawat kepadanya seratus kali.(Hr Muslim)
Rasul s.a.w:
Orang yg lebih baik disisiku di hari kiamat adalah org yg paling banyak selawatnya kepadaku.(Hr Tirmizi)
Sabda Nabi s.a.w:
Hinalah orang yang tidak berselawat kepadaku ketika namuku disebut disisinya.(Hr Tirmizi)
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda:
Hari yang terbaik bagi kamu adalah hari jumaat; jadi perbanyakkan selawat pada hari tersebut.
Maka sesungguhnya selawat yg kamu ucapkan akan dibentangkan kepadaku. Para sahabat bertanya "Bagaimana pula selawat kami dibentangkan kepadamu sedangkan tubuhmu sudah hancur." Beliau bersabda "Sesungguhnya bumi tidak makan jasad anbiya"(Hr Abu Daud)
Tafsirnya: Sesungguhnya Allah dan para malaikatnya berselawat ke atas Nabi Muhammad. Wahai org2 beriman hendaklah kamu semua mengucapkan selawat dan salam kepada baginda.(Surah Al-Ahzab)
Sabda Nabi s.a.w:
Sesiapa yg berselawat keatas Nabi s.a.w sekali; Maka Allah akan berselawat kepadanya seratus kali.(Hr Muslim)
Rasul s.a.w:
Orang yg lebih baik disisiku di hari kiamat adalah org yg paling banyak selawatnya kepadaku.(Hr Tirmizi)
Sabda Nabi s.a.w:
Hinalah orang yang tidak berselawat kepadaku ketika namuku disebut disisinya.(Hr Tirmizi)
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda:
Hari yang terbaik bagi kamu adalah hari jumaat; jadi perbanyakkan selawat pada hari tersebut.
Maka sesungguhnya selawat yg kamu ucapkan akan dibentangkan kepadaku. Para sahabat bertanya "Bagaimana pula selawat kami dibentangkan kepadamu sedangkan tubuhmu sudah hancur." Beliau bersabda "Sesungguhnya bumi tidak makan jasad anbiya"(Hr Abu Daud)
Monday, September 6, 2010
A Smart Ass Kid
Diding A first-grade teacher, Ms Neelam (Age 28)
was having trouble with one of her students the
teacher asked,"Boy. what is your problem?" Boy.
answered, "I'm too smart for the first-grade.My
sister is in the third-grade and I'm smarter than
she is! I think I should be in the third-grade
too!" Ms Neelam had enough.
She took Boy. to the principal's office. While
Boy. waited in the outer office, the teacher
explained to the principal what the situation was.
The principal told Ms Neelam he would give the boy
a test and if he failed to answer any of his
questions he was to go back to the first-gradeand
behave.She agreed. Boy. was brought in and the
conditions were explained to him and he agreed to
take the test. Principal: "What is 3 x 3?" Boy.:
"9". Principal: "What is 6 x 6?" Boy.: "36". And
so it went with every question the principal
thought a third-grade should know.
The principal looks at Ms Neelam and
tells her, "I
think Boy. can go to the third-grade." Ms Neelam
says to the principal, "I have some of my own
questions. Can I ask him ?" The principal and Boy.
both agree.
Ms Neelam asks, "What does a cow have four of that
I have only two of?
Boy., after a moment "Legs."
Ms Neelam: "What is in your pants that you have
but I do not have?"
Boy.: "Pockets."
Ms Neelam: What starts with a C and ends with a T,
is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin
whitish liquid?
Boy.: Coconut
Ms Neelam: What goes in hard and pink then comes
out soft And sticky? The principal's eyes open
really wide and before he could stop the answer,
Boy. was taking charge. Boy.: Bubblegum
Ms Neelam: What does a man do standing up, a woman
does sitting down and a dog does on three leg s?
The principal's eyes open really wide and before
he could stop the answer...
Boy.: Shake hands
Ms
Neelam: Now I will ask some "Who am I" sort of
questions, okay?
Boy.: Yep. Ms Neelam: You stick your poles inside
me. You tie me down to get me up. I get wet before
you do.
Boy.: Tent
Ms Neelam: A finger goes in me. You fiddle with me
when you're bored. The best man always has me
first.The Principal was looking restless, a bit
tense and took one large Patiala Vodka peg.
Boy.: Wedding Ring
Ms Neelam: I come in many sizes. When I'm not
well, I drip. When you blow me, you feel good.
Boy.: Nose
Ms Neelam: I have a stiff shaft. My tip
penetrates. I come with a quiver.
Boy.: Arrow
Ms Neelam: What wordstar ts with a 'F' and ends in
'K' that means lot of heat and excitement?
Boy.: Firetruck
Ms Neelam: What word starts with a 'F' and ends in
'K' & if u dont get it u have to use ur hand.
Boy.: Fork
Ms Neelam: What is it that all men have one of
it's longer
on some men than on others, the pope
doesn't use his and a man gives it to his wife
after they're married?
Boy.: SURNAME
Ms Neelam: What part of the man has no bone but
has muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping, & is
responsible for making love ?
Boy.: HEART.
The principal breathed a sigh of
relief and said to the teacher, "Send this Boy. to
College, I got the last ten questions wrong myself!"
enjoy and thanks for reading! from Admin
was having trouble with one of her students the
teacher asked,"Boy. what is your problem?" Boy.
answered, "I'm too smart for the first-grade.My
sister is in the third-grade and I'm smarter than
she is! I think I should be in the third-grade
too!" Ms Neelam had enough.
She took Boy. to the principal's office. While
Boy. waited in the outer office, the teacher
explained to the principal what the situation was.
The principal told Ms Neelam he would give the boy
a test and if he failed to answer any of his
questions he was to go back to the first-gradeand
behave.She agreed. Boy. was brought in and the
conditions were explained to him and he agreed to
take the test. Principal: "What is 3 x 3?" Boy.:
"9". Principal: "What is 6 x 6?" Boy.: "36". And
so it went with every question the principal
thought a third-grade should know.
The principal looks at Ms Neelam and
tells her, "I
think Boy. can go to the third-grade." Ms Neelam
says to the principal, "I have some of my own
questions. Can I ask him ?" The principal and Boy.
both agree.
Ms Neelam asks, "What does a cow have four of that
I have only two of?
Boy., after a moment "Legs."
Ms Neelam: "What is in your pants that you have
but I do not have?"
Boy.: "Pockets."
Ms Neelam: What starts with a C and ends with a T,
is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin
whitish liquid?
Boy.: Coconut
Ms Neelam: What goes in hard and pink then comes
out soft And sticky? The principal's eyes open
really wide and before he could stop the answer,
Boy. was taking charge. Boy.: Bubblegum
Ms Neelam: What does a man do standing up, a woman
does sitting down and a dog does on three leg s?
The principal's eyes open really wide and before
he could stop the answer...
Boy.: Shake hands
Ms
Neelam: Now I will ask some "Who am I" sort of
questions, okay?
Boy.: Yep. Ms Neelam: You stick your poles inside
me. You tie me down to get me up. I get wet before
you do.
Boy.: Tent
Ms Neelam: A finger goes in me. You fiddle with me
when you're bored. The best man always has me
first.The Principal was looking restless, a bit
tense and took one large Patiala Vodka peg.
Boy.: Wedding Ring
Ms Neelam: I come in many sizes. When I'm not
well, I drip. When you blow me, you feel good.
Boy.: Nose
Ms Neelam: I have a stiff shaft. My tip
penetrates. I come with a quiver.
Boy.: Arrow
Ms Neelam: What wordstar ts with a 'F' and ends in
'K' that means lot of heat and excitement?
Boy.: Firetruck
Ms Neelam: What word starts with a 'F' and ends in
'K' & if u dont get it u have to use ur hand.
Boy.: Fork
Ms Neelam: What is it that all men have one of
it's longer
on some men than on others, the pope
doesn't use his and a man gives it to his wife
after they're married?
Boy.: SURNAME
Ms Neelam: What part of the man has no bone but
has muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping, & is
responsible for making love ?
Boy.: HEART.
The principal breathed a sigh of
relief and said to the teacher, "Send this Boy. to
College, I got the last ten questions wrong myself!"
enjoy and thanks for reading! from Admin
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